Melanie Hawkes, a model from Perth, Australia, decided to lose her virginity at 43 and shared her story. Due to transverse myelitis, a spinal cord disorder, and the loss of her fingers and legs to sepsis, her intimate relationships were complicated. She explained, “I assumed my dream of having a partner someday wouldn’t happen, so I busied myself with work and other commitments.
In 2022, after battling Covid and fearing for her life due to breathing issues, Hawkes realized life was short. Her support worker, who used to be an escort, suggested exploring intimacy with an escort. She contacted Chayse, and after an initial erotic massage, they had a fulfilling experience. Hawkes said, “My only regret is not doing it sooner. I’m speaking out now, so people with disabilities know there are options for intimacy.” She is sharing her experiences to support others in similar situations.
